(Cross Post) How NOT to Approach a Woman [on FetLife]

By luck or whatever, I’ve been spared much of the usual rude, obscene, or offensive messages here that I normally encounter from men on other networking sites. Today, I got a few messages from a Dom who apparently hasn’t learned how to approach a woman.

Noticing my mention of Mother in the first paragraph of my profile, he introduced himself as someone who used to go and asked if the club was still open. I explained that it had closed years ago, reopened for a brief period in the early part of this decade, and then closed again. He then asked for info on new events in the city. Ordinarily I’d be peeved and ask whether I was a walking calendar, but considering my work with Morpheus, I directed him to the online nycALTevents calendar and said there were plenty of things he could check out. From there, he somehow decided to send me this:

“thank you looks likes a busy schedule in any of those places can i tie you to the bathroom door and fuck you hard and deep so everyone else outside can hear you?lol D – RoughAndNYC”

Ahem, thanks… but, no. How do you go from asking about events in the city to whether you can fuck me in a club? I didn’t even express interest in him as a person, nevernind as someone to play with or fuck. Seriously, I just don’t get it. It’s like the two guys at Pleasure Salon who decided to help themselves to my nipples before offering an introduction. Excuse me… ever heard of asking first?

Guys – Learn some farking manners and THEN talk to a woman

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