101 Things I Want To Do Before I Die…
Mostly for my own good, here is a list of things I want to do or accomplish in the near and far future…
- Finish Nursing School to become an RN
- Get my advanced degree to become a Family NP (working in LGBTQI, Poly, & kinky community)
- Get a PhD in Sexology to become a Medical Sexologist, i.e. become the next Dr. Ruth and/or Tristan Taormino
- Have a successful (Top 100) blog
- Have a successful advice website or column
- Learn to insert IVs and do blood draw
- Graduate NYU with a 3.5 or better
- Become a collared high-protocol slave
- Run a half marathon
- Write (and publish) a Book
- Be in (queer) porn
- Purchase a waist-training corset from www.waspcreations.com
- Corset train my waist to a size 24″
- Get my Septum pierced
- Get a chastity piercing of my outer labia
- Develop and present (at least) 5 sexuality/gender workshops
- Become a Cuddle Party Facilitator
- Host Queer, Poly, and Kinky Cuddle Parties
- Be featured in a full-length shoot on Kink.com
- Establish/Join a Chosen Family Intentional Housing CommUNITY
- Get (back) to a size 6.
- Get (back) into a workout/running routine
- Learn and hone skills in using a single tail
- Become adept at Shibari
- Learn to do rope suspension (self & other)
- Successfully suspend someone using rope
- Compete in a Community BootBlack Competition
- Become a member of a Leather Organization
- Present a class (or more) at Dark Odyssey
- Be able to do splits (again)
- Be able to have my elbows touch (in rope bondage)
- Own a horse
- Compete in an equestrian show
- Own (or collectively own with others) a house with a barn/farm
- Travel to Japan
- Travel to India
- Travel to Ireland
- Travel to Britain
- Travel to Italy
- Travel to Spain
- Travel to Amsterdam
- Go on a cruise
- Go to Hedonism
- Travel to Morocco
- Spend 3 months as a monk/nun
- Learn to communicate with the gods (via Divination or another way)
- Fuck a boy/girl with an Irish brogue
- Fuck a pair of twins
- Own a kilt
- Become adept at cello & perform for a small audience
- Take voice lessons (again)
- Take bellydance classes
- Learn to strip/pole dance
- Perform in an opera
- Sing at the Met (hey… dream big, right?)
- Become adept at fire spinning
- Memorize meanings of all the Minor/Major Arcana in the Tarot
- Become fluent in ASL
- Learn Reiki/ Energy Work
- Bear children
- Knit legwarmers
- Learn to do traditional Japanese tea ceremony
- Do a Zen retreat at San Francisco Zen Center
- Become a member of AASECT
- Become fluent in another language, especially Spanish and/or Italian
- Travel to the Middle East
- Learn how to bake a cake from scratch (and do it successfully)
- Prepare a high-protocol dinner for a group of very special guests
- Finish reading the Chronicles of Narnia Series
- Become well-versed in (academic) gender theory
- Own and wear a kimono
- Spend a month traveling throughout Europe
- Ride the famous Express train through Eastern Europe
- Own a sunfish (sailboat)
- Corrupt a hot Desi girl
- Assemble a Gothic Tribal Bellydance Outfit
- Perform with a Tribal Bellydance Troupe
- Learn burlesque & perform a routine for an audience
- Assemble a kick-ass Japanese Gothic Lolita Outfit
- Have tea with a Japanese geisha/maiko
- Grow my hair down to my ass
- Donate hair to Locks of Love
- Cut my hair into a faux hawk
- Assemble a custom ponygirl ensemble & perform in a show
- Go abroad to do good things, i.e. Doctors Without Borders, Peace Corps, etc.
- Stop saying “Sorry” so much… and learn to occupy/demand space
- Own and **wear** a pair of ballet shoes/boots (preferably NOT on my knees)
101. Make a difference.
This is a work in-progress, as you can see… admittedly, it’s hard to summarize your life in 101 lines.







So, can you cross #19 off already then, as you’ve been on the site?
Lee Harrington said this on November 10th, 2009 at 1:21 am
Okay, I should revise that to say… “To be featured in a full-length shoot on Kink.com.”
Mina Meow said this on November 10th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
UPDATE: 12/09
Del is cutting my hair into a faux hawk on 1/1/10 as part of a ritual marking the next step into being third-gender. We’re donating my hair to Locks of Love. (that’s TWO items to be coming off the list.) I just started the Cuddle Party certification program. (that’ll be a third) Oh, and I’m working on keeping my 3.5 or higher. We’ll see how this semester goes!
Mina Meow said this on December 7th, 2009 at 1:17 pm